Exhibit A:
(Top: my mom reading to me at about 12 months or so; below: me reading to Zeke last weekend)
Exhibit B:
There's something very gratifying, but also very strange, about seeing yourself in your child. I often think, sure, he's got some of my physical traits, but is he going to have my personality traits? Will he inherit the clinical depression I inherited from my dad's side of the family? Will he be smart? Will he have my irrational fear of birds, or my aversion to bell peppers? Will he eat vegemite like his father?
On one hand, I know I should just stop worrying about it. He'll turn out how he turns out, and if his current personality is any indication, he'll be a charming, happy guy. But on the other hand, I can't stop thinking about it. I'm just so curious to find out what he'll be like.
There's something very gratifying, but also very strange, about seeing yourself in your child. I often think, sure, he's got some of my physical traits, but is he going to have my personality traits? Will he inherit the clinical depression I inherited from my dad's side of the family? Will he be smart? Will he have my irrational fear of birds, or my aversion to bell peppers? Will he eat vegemite like his father?
On one hand, I know I should just stop worrying about it. He'll turn out how he turns out, and if his current personality is any indication, he'll be a charming, happy guy. But on the other hand, I can't stop thinking about it. I'm just so curious to find out what he'll be like.
Ohhh, I love the photos! You are right - he is so much like you in his facial expressions!
ReplyDeleteIt's really interesting, the pieces of personality and physical tendencies that kids get from their parents. I've seen this in friends' kids and in my own nephew - and it comes out so young! I had no idea.
This stopped me dead in my tracks! Just whoa!
ReplyDeleteI had no idea how much Zeke looked like you.
And the picture of your mom reading to you and then it's "twin" of you with Zeke - well, they're stunning in their resemblance.
When I saw the pic of me reading to him, I was really excited b/c the pic of my mom reading to me is one of my all time faves, and it was so amazing to see it replicated (especially since I look so much like my mom).
ReplyDeletei knew you looked like your mom, but didn't realize just how much. that is an awesome photo. also i have an irrational love of baby ears and as mentioned before, i have a crush on zeke's!
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